We often hear that women live harder lives than men, but in truth, both face their own unique challenges. Parenting is one such area where both play vital roles. While mothers often bring emotional and mental strength, fathers provide separation and physical strength. However, motherhood itself carries a special weight, one that begins long before the baby is born.

Parenting may require equal effort, but it’s never truly equal. A child spends nearly nine months in the womb, forming a deep connection with the mother through her smell, touch, and presence. After birth, this bond continues to be vital. While both parents can build their own connections, the mother’s touch is something a child will always seek.

When it comes to breastfeeding, the mother bears the primary responsibility. Fathers can support by ensuring the mother is well-nourished, but the act of feeding, whether through breastmilk or formula, remains the mother’s domain. Each woman’s pregnancy journey is unique, filled with personal memories, challenges, and physical changes. Yet, despite this, society often forgets to treat women with the respect and care they deserve during this transformative time.

As she prepares to bring new life into the world, a woman’s body, mind, and soul are in their purest form. It’s a time when she needs love, support, and understanding more than ever. Her mind is filled with questions and concerns “How will I manage this?” “Will I bond with my child?” yet, too often, these fears are overlooked.

After enduring mood swings, morning sickness, and physical discomfort, a woman deserves to feel valued and respected when she finally delivers her baby. Unfortunately, instead of offering support, people often start comparing the baby’s appearance or questioning the mother’s capabilities. Comments about the baby being too weak, too fat, too fair, or too dark can be incredibly hurtful. These criticisms don’t just affect the mother; they can also impact her ability to care for her child, as stress and negativity can reduce milk supply and slow recovery.

It’s crucial to remember that if you truly love a child, you should respect the mother. Her well-being directly influences the child’s health and happiness. Partners should protect each other from unnecessary stress and create a positive, supportive environment for both mother and baby.

In a world where women are often judged harshly, mothers will never be “enough” for everyone. Whether it’s breastfeeding versus formula feeding, working versus staying at home, or focusing on nutrition versus being more relaxed, every choice is scrutinized. But what matters most is the bond between mother and child a bond that is uniquely theirs.

As parents, it’s essential to trust your instincts and believe in your connection with your child. God has brought you together for a reason, and you have the strength to navigate the challenges of parenthood. Cherish the first smile, the first word, and every precious moment in between. When you look into your child’s eyes, all the struggles fade away, leaving only the pure joy of being a parent.

Happy Parenting!!!