For generations, we’ve been told one thing: parents are always right. But have we ever paused to wonder how did they earn that certainty? How did they come to understand what is truly right and what is not? How do they decide what’s best for their child?

Parenthood is not just a role, it’s a journey filled with endless learning, unshakable patience, and unconditional love. And when it comes to mothers, we often say, She just knows it all. But how does she? Is it instinct, experience, or the sheer will to nurture? A mother listens, observes, and absorbs every cry, every tantrum, every unspoken emotion. She handles frustration, exhaustion, and the countless challenges that come with raising a child. She becomes a fortress of warmth and understanding, guiding her little one through the world with unwavering strength.

The truth is, they weren’t always right. They became parents, and they learned. They made mistakes, doubted themselves, questioned their choices, and grew alongside their child. Parenthood isn’t an instant achievement; it’s a journey of trial and error, of falling and getting back up, of learning what works and what doesn’t.

But the lessons of parenthood extend beyond just raising a child. It teaches a person resilience, patience, and the ability to prioritize, sometimes for the first time, their own physical and mental well-being. It forces them to confront their insecurities, push past their fears, and realize that even in moments of self-doubt, they are capable of nurturing and guiding another human being.

Parenthood is not about being perfect. It’s about showing up, learning, making mistakes, and never giving up.

How a Child Transforms You

Becoming a parent is not just about raising a child, it’s about growing into a new version of yourself. A child has a way of unlocking emotions within you that you never knew existed, pushing you beyond limits, and making you reach a new level of self-awareness and strength. Parenthood, in its raw and beautiful essence, brings out the best in you.

Patience

From sleepless nights filled with crying to endless diaper changes, feedings, and unpredictable tantrums, parenthood is a crash course in patience. Just when you think you’ve figured it all out, something new arises, another challenge, another lesson. But through it all, you learn to pause, breathe, and respond with love instead of frustration. Over time, patience stops being something you try to have and becomes a part of who you are.

Intuition

The mere thought of something happening to your child awakens a deep sense of awareness within you. You begin to trust your gut instincts like never before. You notice subtle signs, anticipate needs before they arise, and develop a protective energy that sharpens your perception of the world. Intuition becomes your unseen guide, helping you navigate parenthood with a wisdom that feels almost second nature.

Trusting Yourself

When it comes to your child, no one knows them better than you. Not even your partner. This realization brings a deep trust in yourself, your choices, your decisions, your ability to care for and protect your little one. You no longer seek validation for your instincts; you stand firm in them. Parenthood teaches you to listen to your inner voice and own your confidence unapologetically.

Letting Go of the Unnecessary

Suddenly, things that once consumed your thoughts no longer hold power over you. The small worries, the trivial conflicts, the constant urge to prove something to the world, they all fade into the background. Your focus sharpens, your priorities shift, and you embrace a simpler yet more meaningful way of living. The only thing that truly matters is your child’s well-being, and everything else takes its rightful place, somewhere far down the list.

Mindful Conversations

Parenthood makes you deeply conscious of what you say and how you say it. You realize that your words shape the environment your child grows up in. You start speaking with more kindness, more intention. You become mindful of how you treat yourself and others, knowing that little eyes are always watching, little ears are always listening. And in the process, you become a better version of yourself, not just for your child, but for the world.

Parenthood is more than a journey, it’s a transformation. It pushes you, refines you, and molds you into someone stronger, wiser, and more compassionate than you ever thought possible. A child doesn’t just change your life; they elevate it.

It’s just like how Hanuman regained his divine powers upon meeting Ram. Parents are like an unaware Hanuman, and when they meet their Ram their child they realize the immense strength and love they hold within.

Let’s honor and appreciate the Ram in your child for all they do to shape you into the incredible, confident person you are today.

“What is one strength you discovered in yourself only after becoming a parent? Share your story in the comments below.”